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Friday, 26 January 2018

The Secret You Need To Know About Men

The Secret You Need To Know About Men

Who is Nick? Well, he’s been a love expert and researched everything about relationships, love and what makes a man tick as if he is a surgeon dissecting a medical condition.

And on that fateful day he revealed his most significant revelation about men:

“The sad truth is when you go out of your way to do things to make him happy… and are in a really good mood, happy, nice, on his “team,” yet also sprinkle in enough of the chase to make sure he doesn’t get too comfortable and think he has you… this is when he vanishes out of nowhere or breaks up with you for no reason!”

Women are wired to want to be sweet motherly figures who are kind and caring. But being this way alone is not going to make a man truly fall in love. You need to realize there’s an “intangible” that a guy has to have a specific kind of “emotional experience” to actually go out of his way to chase you, commit to you and be obsessed with you.

If you are missing this special “component,” and he gets the impression that you’re pressuring him into making things official… his walls and male radar go up fast and he won’t be aware of it but his subconscious will feel that you’re definitely not his “soul mate.”

This will make him try to establish independence and liberate himself from you and he certainly will not be emotionally open or try to establish a deeper bond.

Even worse, his subconscious and instincts will tell him that he’s constantly under the microscope and he will feel he is suffocating.

What does he do when he feels this? Well, he becomes distant, confusing and makes sure he is never emotionally present. This murders any short at love and the budding relationship is stopped before it starts.

Nick continued, “This is the reason behind why when you look for love and are craving it, you’re accidentally killing your chances with him and you always end up in the same cycle of trying to capture his attention and love but never really having it. Or if you do end up dating him and in an official relationship you always feel that you like him more and that he’s not completely in it.”

On the flip side, when a man views you as his “soul mate,” everything you do or say makes you more amazing in his eyes. Rather than view you as a freedom snatcher, a crazy woman trying to “force him into a relationship” he views you as “the one.” A woman he cannot imagine life without.

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